Your friends should be sharpening you, and making you better not bitter, contributing in your uprising not draining you. That is how to know the Right friend. Moreover, it’s iron that can sharpen iron, “wood can’t” Who you spend your time always with, will have a great influence on you, negatively or positively! Those who do not mean well added more weight in your struggle but those who mean well helps and easy your weight for you to fly. It simply means that friends who mean well are friends who have good intentions, who do something because they mean well or are trying to be helpful.

Friends are important, especially those that mean well to you, they will inspire you and will always be there to your motivation and make you better. They give us a feeling of belonging, bring fun and laughter, lend an extra hand, offer emotional support, and give guidance when you need it. And, whether you realize it or not, their influence goes well beyond the moment. Your well meaning close friendships help to shape the course of your life.

If you’re spending time with the people that doesn’t mean well, you won’t meet the right people, You’ll get stuck, because they will confuse you, convince you and convert you to whom they are, You can’t hang out with chickens and expect to soar like eagles, Other qualities rub off on you, Their pessimistic outlooks and gloomy attitude can decrease our motivation and change the way we feel.

It’s time to make a change, You won’t become who you were created to be if you don’t make changes, Spirits are transferable, If you hang out with a gossipers, you’ll become one. That stingy spirit will get off on you. If you hang around excellent people excellence will rub off on you, Those same good qualities will become a part of your life. Make sure people have the qualities that you want. desire the best, growth begins from desire, People that inspire you to go further.

A man I know has a friend that treats his wife so great, It inspires the man to treat his wife better. We shouldn’t hang out with people who are disrespectful to their spouses. We have to set boundaries. If someone is always negative, critical, finding fault, then they’re not for you. Be selective.

Life is too short to waste time hanging with the wrong people. People without integrity. Always have a problem. Surround yourself with eagles. Proverbs 28:7 Young people who obey the law are wise, those with wild friends bring shame to their parents. People who aren’t adding value to your life. You may be lonely for a season but God will bring you somebody better. Psalm 1, don’t sit inactive in the pathway of the ungodly.

What if I hurt their feelings? What if you miss your destiny? Don’t keep going to the gym or game with the same people who are causing you to compromise. A man I know met a companion in same field, and they decided to start a business together, He who is swimming in the ocean of blindness May not know until his eyes is open.

Fly unlimited



  1. You made some very important points in this post about the effects that people have on your life.

    I recently worked with someone who had very strong malignant narcissistic behaviors, and my work experience was misery as a result of the just one person.
    One of the things I did (beside pray for him), was to learn about why they think like they do, and here are a few videos that I found to be informative:

    God bless your pursuit of truth miss Julia 🙂

  2. Very much important points right there

    “You won’t become who you were created to be if you dont make changes…spirits are transferable”

    Wooowcthsnks for this

  3. Pingback: FRIENDS THAT MEAN WELL AND FRIENDS WHO DO NOT — Precious Sheep Of Renown – QuietMomentsWithGod

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